Monday, February 9, 2015

Deep Thoughts

What was your first dance song at your wedding, or if you're not married, what do you think a good one would be?

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  1. We didn't have a conventional wedding. We did have the Beach Boys God only knows playing as we were introduced by t he celebrant. Our actual song is "I wanna get funky" by the Beasts of Bourbon which was played after our vows.

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    1. God Only Knows was our first dance.

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    2. It's a beautiful song that makes me cry M. Briwn. However, i do tend to hear it now & think of bigamy & really ugly frocks.

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  2. Didnt have a wedding but our song was Bridge Over Trouble Water, as in we were each others bridge over troubled waters. Sickening, i know, lol

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    1. I think that's amazingly gorgeous Aunt Licky.

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  3. If I Should Fall Behind by Bruce Springsteen. And my band totally did Jersey Girl in my honor. Yay!

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  4. Shama Lama Ding Dong by Otis Day and the Knights

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  5. We are planning our wedding now. Our first song is going to be Like A Prayer.

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    2. Congrats and FABULOUS @Rose!!!
      <3

      LOVE that song idea! I also think Just Like Heaven by the Cure would be a great wedding choice.

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    3. Congrats, Rose! Are we all invited? :)

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    4. That's funny you say that Lady H, we knew our first song would either be Madonna or The Cure :)

      And thanks for the congrats!

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  6. Endless Love (another sickening one, I know, I know), but we walked out to "Give It To Me Baby" by Rick James.

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  7. I Can't help falling in Love with You, but the UB40 version, not Elvis. To this day I am still happy with the choice.

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    1. I love both the Elvis and UB40 versions!!! So good :)

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  8. Oh my god. My brother's wife planned the entire wedding but conceded that he could pick the music. Such a bad mistake. My brother ended up picking Chicago's You're the Inspiration. Since I was a bridesmaid, I had to get up there and slow dance with one of his frat buddies. It was SO hard to keep a straight face.

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    1. Ha!@Lady H!
      Our wedding was completely a non-wedding, sorta. Just a surprise party where we all had fun. No stress. I really should've sought revenge on my bridesmaid and make her wear a hideous frock as she did to me. I missed my one chance to be a complete bitch where it is socially acceptable.

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  9. Mr. Coconut and I have been together, not married, for almost five years. I've never been a wedding type of girl, he's asked about things involving my "dream wedding" and I just said, like, a nice dress I guess? He went to his good friend's wedding a year before we met and he loved that they had "I Can't Help Falling in Love With You" by Elvis Presley for their song. Aww!

    But if a wedding happens at any time, I've been thinking of "Stand By Me," the original with Ben. E. King. To me that epitomizes an equal and loving relationship between two people. Mr. Coconut loves it too. And, at the end of our reception, we will have the DJ play "Stairway to Heaven" by Led Zeppelin because in high school they always closed the dances to that and everyone would make out. No other choice, the song was too long to just sway forever, might as well just go for it.

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  10. I eloped so no dancing ever. I would probably walk down the aisle to hard to concentrate and my first dance to desperado. Who knows though, not ready to make that kind of commitment to music ;)

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  11. We didn't have a big reception -- just dinner -- so no first dance. I always envisioned it to be Angels by Robbie Williams.

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  12. I've always thought my favourite song by Gordon Lightfoot would be a great first song, it is called Beautiful, I think the lyrics are perfect for that day
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    Never heard of anyone else using it though, acoustic guitars may not be everyone's cup of tea anymore

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  13. You are the sunshine of my life
    -Stevie Wonder-

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  14. First wedding: That's What Friend's are For, (very appropriate it seemed a year later). Second wedding: I Swear. My best friend MOH picked it, both times.

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  15. We just had a dessert reception at the church so we didn't dance, but if we had I was pushing for "To Make You Feel My Love" by Garth Brooks. My cousin recently got married and while I don't remember his first dance, they cut the cake to "Pour Some Sugar On Me" by Def Leppard which I LOVED!!!

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  16. Elvis version of "I Can't Help Falling in Love with You"

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  18. One of my first posts ever and I had to delete because I made so many mistakes. Embarassing.

    I was trying to say... Our first dance was Ingrid Michelson's "The Way I Am". We also exited our ceremony to "500 miles (I'm gonna be)" and entered our reception to "I Believe in a Thjng Called Love" by The Darkness. We tried to have fun with our music.

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  19. If I ever get married, I hope the first song can be either "In My Life" by The Beatles or KISS' "Forever".

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  20. I was thinking while watching the Grammys that Thinking Out Loud would be a nice wedding song...

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    1. I LOVE that for a wedding song. I've thought about that one as well but I don't even have a boyfriend. Lol!

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  21. Come What May from the Moulin Rouge soundtrack,still gets me teary after a decade!!

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  22. I think I would like a song that everyone would like to get up and dance to. And we would do it early on. I went to a Lebanese wedding where we were up and dancing before the meal, between courses and after the meal. So much fun.

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  23. The Opster and I did the cliche thing and chose Pacalbel's Canon for the walk down the aisle, non cliche "I Do I Do I Do" by Abba on the way back and Fee Fighters, "Walking After You". The lyrics say if things go wrong, we won't run away, we'll walk back to the other person. It really had great significance to us. So far he's stuck with me in spite of some big bad things I've done. Man deserves an award, really.

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  24. I wanted Love by John Lennon, but we went with Wonderful Tonight by Clapton. It's a great song, but I wanted something a bit more unique.

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  25. Played Kate Bush at my first wedding (we got married at home not a church). Second time I got married we eloped to Roswell New Mexico and got married at the courthouse. No tunes.

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  26. i like the glee version of keene's "somewhere only we know"
    and i like old school kenny chesney's "me and you"
    and big and rich's lost in this moment "
    makes me swoon and all sorts of jelly

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  27. Have I Told You Lately - Van Morrison

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  28. My husband and I decided fairly laid back people, and we like to think we both have a good sense of humor. Our first dance song was John Prine's "it's a big old goofy world." It's a song I doubt anyone else will ever pick, but the first time I ever heard it I said,"that's going to be our wedding song." It's a sweet song, and it matches our quirky personalities.

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  29. PS. I used Vitamin String Quartlet for my pre-ceremony music. One, bc I love it, and two, bc I wanted people to hear the insturmentals and be like, "I know that song from somewhere...is that KANYE (not gold digger, I promise). And my bridesmaids walked down to VSQ's cover of the white stripes, "I can tell that we are going to be friends." :)

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  30. California Dreaming. Then relocated to San Francisco 5 years later.

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  31. Seachica went to a pub after the rugby in Twickenham. Lock in. Angels was on & rugby players were dancing on the bar! Everyone was singing very very loudly! Happy days :)

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  32. I would chose "Here and Now" by the late Luthor Vandross.

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    1. Had the title wrong. "Just the way you are" I should know that, but in my defense, it's been 20 years.

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  34. From This Moment On by Shania Twain and If you Ask Me To by Celine. If I hadn't of got married in Vegas! And it's not by design they're both Canadian female power singers, just love the songs.

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  35. TRUE - Spandau Ballet
    WILD HORSES - Rolling Stones

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