Am putting off an assignment that really needs to be done. The good news is, I get a lot of other things checked off the to-do list when I am busy putting off something else.
My sweet little lady is sick today :( super sad faces and snuggles all around. Plus I'm trying to break up with a crazy client who bothered me all during the holiday, tagged me in statuses like I'm avoiding her, and general craziness, all about a session that is 3 months away. I'm like, feel free to go somewhere else, here are some referrals crazy pants.
26 - oh, that's nothing. Wait until you're 32 and feel that way. Or don't. Not fun. I did learn on Saturday night that my ex girlfriend broke up with her new(ish) guy back in November. I'm debating as to whether I should contact her or just ♫l Let It Goooooooo ♫.
@Jason, my ex who I so desperately wanted to break up with his gf...actually did to my shock and now horror...now that he's available and sniffing around, I'm a lot less interested then I was when he wasn't available.
Normally I would not give another thought - lots more incredible women out there - but her brother in-law was the one who told me she has indicated she wanted to re-connect. This is harrrrrrrrrd you guys.
JBE..You broke up for a reason! Dragon..Girl, 26 is young..You don't even hit your peak until you're mid-30's. I'd suggest ho-ing it up while you can. Unless of course you''re really ready for chirrens..
@JBE! I'm going through something similar. I'm recently on my own and one of my ex's has become single too and has been hitting me up lately. I would ask yourself carefully why you are reconsidering a reunion and whether it's for the right reasons. Sometimes people get nostalgic and think it's easier to reconnect with someone familiar rather than risk putting themselves out there again and dealing with getting to know some stranger. I would also think about why you split and how she would fit into your life now. For example, how would your family and friends feel about it? There is no easy answer here but I wish you the best!
And don't be silly @Dragon! You are smart, funny, AND a total cutie. Anyone would be lucky to be with you.
Dragon, Stop it darling! You will find your knight soon lady. Just hold tight. : )
JBE, my opinion, Don't Do It! I did this three years ago and it was the worst god damn decision I ever made in my life! Same old bullshit arose and it was even worse heartbreak the 2nd time around. I'm trying to save you that bleeding heart. haha Obviously only you know what your gut wants. Best of luck buddy.
You all make sense. I've decided to not be the one to contact her. She knows how to get in touch with me if she is so inclined. She knows where I live - which is like a five minute drive from her place. There are other women I can date right n- *looks down at stomach and sees I put on a few over Xmas and decides to work that off* er..next month.
Dragon, the human brain only stops growing at 25! Based on stats alone, many of your friends who are married will eventually divorce. Focus on what you want, not what others are doing, and ensure your own happiness first. As Sherry said, it's the time to be young, single and having fun. Plenty of time. It'll happen when it happens!
lady h i didn't know you and you're dude broke up!! sads all around and sugarhugs to you !!!
jbe.. remember how jizzelle kept going back to leo b/c she kept thinking there was something there worth saving?? then she dumped him for good and said "there are many fishes in the sea" i saw a gossip blurb from about 2 years ago where jizzelle walked into a nyc pre met gala ball party with tom brady and looked over at leo lucci all paunchy now and surrounded by 5, 20 something models and she just shook her head and walked away...
jbe you are jizzelle here.. shake your head now and walk away you are a really great and sweet guy and there are many women who will realize that first and not need to keep going back around to see if being hit in the head with a hammer feels any different THIS time
My roommate's bank gave him a counterfeit $100, which my bank then rejected (obvs.) Now our rent is late, and won't be paid til Thursday because I'm flat broke and had no back up cash.
If you have a casino nearby, take it and put it in a machine, then cash out, take the ticket they give you and get a new $100 bill. Sure it's money laundering but it's the banks fault to begin with.
Rowdy is right! The bank, where they are supp to find counterfi money and NOT give it out shld be 100% responsible for reimbursing your friend. Did he try? Otherwise do rowdys thing, it gambling money anyway and they are swimming in it.
Ordered a salad for lunch from one of my favorite places, and was pleasantly surprised that not only a salad, but they gave me a slice of spanikopita too!!! Nom nom nom! I am now overly stuffed and need a nap.
Took my cat to the vet for shots this am and found he's gained 1/2 lb in the last 11 days! Everyone who comes over keeps commenting that he's getting BIG but I guess he is. I also noticed he is bruising my thighs when he jumps on me and prances around till he lays on my lap! Oh fat cat problems!
Avoiding the dreaded "What do you wanna do for your birthday" question like the plague. Its not until Saturday people, let me enjoy being 30 for 3.5 more days please!!!!
interesting comments on Assange, and Bill Cosby issued a statement for people to remain calm if his three Canadian concerts are disrupted for any reason.
Tina- bill cosby shld know enough to hang it up. Now he's gonna get people feeling sorry for this kindly older gentlemen who just wants to tell jokes. Ugh! He a low class pos. i hope no one shows up. Or mb someone will drug his ass and he'll wake up disoriented, half dressed with his asshole burning. Then someone will throw his ass out in the street half naked and he can try to find his way home, where can spend the next 10 years wondering what happened and why.
Thanks @Runswithscissors!!! I decided not to give up and called all around the city! I found a place that matched the Black Friday deal! Buy two get two free, baby!!!! You rock!
I'm doing absolutely nothing. I haven't heard from my "girlfriend" in about a week but noticed she added someone I knew back in the day on Facebook, this person never liked me because of some stuff that went down way back in the day, I'm talking before high school 20+ years ago, so that might have something to do with it. But in any case, I'm not going to worry about it. I've been on my own so long I'm used to it.
I am playing a new game, though. I got it for my nieces when they come over but I picked it up the other day and it's pretty freaking fun. It's Disney Infinity 2.0, it's like that Skylanders but with Disney and Marvel characters. You're able to play the games they have on it or make your own. I've made a game sort of like Mario Kart starring Mickey, Donald, Minnie, Black Widow, Cpt. America, Venom and Spider-Man lol
Nice shout out on Gawker and yes, confirmation of what everyone knew all along about Kim Jong Enty. I want to post as Kim Jong Enty and defend his "honour", haha. "The new site is great! I've read all 200 emails and everyone loves it! You losers just can't handle the truth! Ask my remaining six commenters!"
JBE, I'm of the opinion that if someone dumps you, that's the end. It's like re-lighting a cigarette or re-heating leftovers, it's never as good as the first time and you end up disappointed. Let her go, move on to greener pastures. I assure you there is someone out there. I dated some great guys and some toads and was doing the throw in the towel and join a convent talk when I met SO. (TBF, I was in my 20s and my dating life numbers in the single digits, like on one hand, so in retrospect it was perhaps a bit premature to threaten renunciation vows...) Being alone can be hard and looking back on how awesome it was can make being alone feel harder, but honestly, a fresh start can mean a world of difference.
Jne and everyone waiting and looking for love: it will come but when your involved with wrong person for wrong reasons, you're wasting your time. And the more time u spend with thr wrong person is the less time you have to find and be with the right person.
I'm sitting here snacking on bittersweet chocolate chips watching season one of Person of Interest. I need to get off my ass and get my Iggy care package together to send my sister. She's coming down with our new rescue dog next week! I've had the windows open in the house all afternoon, it's a fabulous 68 degrees out.
I work in a high school athletic department and am working a basketball game this evening. We are all anxiously awaiting word if we are closed tomorrow. Snow day!!!
Tuesday was some sort of freakishly warm day for us. The rest of the week is gonna be in the low 40's. Gotta bust out my fur lined Crocs. Ha ha Haaa! I have morphed into a disgusting Austin hippy. As opposed to a disgusting Denver hippy (my home town). Shit, I wish they would get a clue and at least legalize medical marijuanna here like they did in Colo. Like the hippy musicians here aren't already self "medicating". I mean Willie Nelson lives here for fucksake! Texas is so ass backwards sometimes.
The black dog is visiting. I don't remember feeling this down in such a long time. Can't stop crying and shaking ... and vomiting (the stress, I guess). Hopefully I'll tire myself out soon and sleep it off. :-(
Step- i feel for you. That black dog can be a bitch. Hug him, hold him close til morning. Feed him some snacks, then open up the door and let that black out in the sun, never to return. Be well is right.
Stepforded : big hugs. The black dog is rabid and nasty. Just take care of yourself. Come over to Aus and I'll make you awesome soup, baked goods and fresh juices and you can hang out and watch my dvd collections (Arrested development, black books, 30 Rock) & our crazy pets always cheer anyone up!
I don't comment very often, as living in England means you already have a head start on me. Obviously I would be first every time if not for the time difference!!
I always enjoy reading the regular posters although in a slightly twisted way I do sometimes miss the bitchfest of CDaN, so when I feel the need for spiteful and malicious comments I revisit. Who knew it was okay to say online what you wouldn't dream of saying to someones face?
Anyway, I just wondered if anyone know where the Count has disappeared to - I love his particular brand of snarkiness (erm not really sure what that says about me!)
♫Workin' for a livin'♪
ReplyDeleteAm putting off an assignment that really needs to be done. The good news is, I get a lot of other things checked off the to-do list when I am busy putting off something else.
ReplyDeleteI do the same thing. Big project due? Let me finish something that is 0% important.
DeleteHuge procrastinator here too. I even tried to procrastinate labor, hahaha, didn't work.
DeleteWorking from home and eating peppermint bark. Sounds way more glamorous than it is tbh.
ReplyDeleteI'm two squares down on a World's Finest Chocolate bar. Damn these people with their fundraisers.
ReplyDeleteMy sweet little lady is sick today :( super sad faces and snuggles all around. Plus I'm trying to break up with a crazy client who bothered me all during the holiday, tagged me in statuses like I'm avoiding her, and general craziness, all about a session that is 3 months away. I'm like, feel free to go somewhere else, here are some referrals crazy pants.
ReplyDeleteOh Krystie, i smell some BPD cray and you may need to tactfully refer this person on....not sure what work you do, but already it spells drama....
Deletejust found out two of my friends got engage, Im forever alone ={
ReplyDeleteNo, you are but forever alone, just feels like it right now because your friends will get a lot of attention.
DeleteHang in there, the feeling is brief.
I might have exaggerated but im 26 and everyone i know are popping kids or married. Im here like Okay lol
DeleteWait til they start getting divorced, won't feel so lonely either, heck! You'll feel like you dodged a bullet.
DeleteAlright, better stop procrastinating, see ya!
26 - oh, that's nothing. Wait until you're 32 and feel that way. Or don't. Not fun. I did learn on Saturday night that my ex girlfriend broke up with her new(ish) guy back in November. I'm debating as to whether I should contact her or just ♫l Let It Goooooooo ♫.
DeleteOh Dont scare me Jason lol. You still care about her? You think can give it another shot then go for it.
Delete@Jason Don't do it! Listen to Danny Tanner :)
Delete@Jason, my ex who I so desperately wanted to break up with his gf...actually did to my shock and now horror...now that he's available and sniffing around, I'm a lot less interested then I was when he wasn't available.
DeleteNormally I would not give another thought - lots more incredible women out there - but her brother in-law was the one who told me she has indicated she wanted to re-connect. This is harrrrrrrrrd you guys.
DeleteJBE..You broke up for a reason!
DeleteDragon..Girl, 26 is young..You don't even hit your peak until you're mid-30's. I'd suggest ho-ing it up while you can. Unless of course you''re really ready for chirrens..
♡ Dragon!!! P.S. We're the same age
Delete@JBE! I'm going through something similar. I'm recently on my own and one of my ex's has become single too and has been hitting me up lately. I would ask yourself carefully why you are reconsidering a reunion and whether it's for the right reasons. Sometimes people get nostalgic and think it's easier to reconnect with someone familiar rather than risk putting themselves out there again and dealing with getting to know some stranger. I would also think about why you split and how she would fit into your life now. For example, how would your family and friends feel about it? There is no easy answer here but I wish you the best!
DeleteAnd don't be silly @Dragon! You are smart, funny, AND a total cutie. Anyone would be lucky to be with you.
@Sherry No no chiildren. I'll step it up
Delete@lotta YAY <3
@lady H Thanks hunny you too. <3
Damn, Lady H. I was going to ask you about getting together. There goes that dream... ; )
DeleteDragon, Stop it darling! You will find your knight soon lady. Just hold tight. : )
DeleteJBE, my opinion, Don't Do It! I did this three years ago and it was the worst god damn decision I ever made in my life! Same old bullshit arose and it was even worse heartbreak the 2nd time around. I'm trying to save you that bleeding heart. haha Obviously only you know what your gut wants. Best of luck buddy.
You all make sense. I've decided to not be the one to contact her. She knows how to get in touch with me if she is so inclined. She knows where I live - which is like a five minute drive from her place. There are other women I can date right n- *looks down at stomach and sees I put on a few over Xmas and decides to work that off* er..next month.
DeleteDragon, the human brain only stops growing at 25! Based on stats alone, many of your friends who are married will eventually divorce. Focus on what you want, not what others are doing, and ensure your own happiness first. As Sherry said, it's the time to be young, single and having fun. Plenty of time. It'll happen when it happens!
Deletelady h i didn't know you and you're dude broke up!!
Deletesads all around and sugarhugs to you !!!
jbe.. remember how jizzelle kept going back to leo b/c she kept thinking there was something there worth saving??
then she dumped him for good and said "there are many fishes in the sea"
i saw a gossip blurb from about 2 years ago where jizzelle walked into a nyc pre met gala ball party with tom brady and looked over at leo lucci all paunchy now and surrounded by 5, 20 something models and she just shook her head and walked away...
jbe you are jizzelle here.. shake your head now and walk away
you are a really great and sweet guy and there are many women who will realize that first and not need to keep going back around to see if being hit in the head with a hammer feels any different THIS time
*Stands and claps*
DeleteTrying to remember something I forgot, I feel I have something important to take care of but I cannot remember what that is.
ReplyDeleteI've seen lots of shops with sales, just search online who has a sale before going. With the lower gas prices, there should be sales everywhere.
ReplyDeleteMy roommate's bank gave him a counterfeit $100, which my bank then rejected (obvs.) Now our rent is late, and won't be paid til Thursday because I'm flat broke and had no back up cash.
ReplyDelete@annanaannnaaaa, :-( that sucks
DeleteIf you have a casino nearby, take it and put it in a machine, then cash out, take the ticket they give you and get a new $100 bill. Sure it's money laundering but it's the banks fault to begin with.
Delete^or you could NOT do the above because the risk/benefit is not worth it
DeleteRowdy is right! The bank, where they are supp to find counterfi money and NOT give it out shld be 100% responsible for reimbursing your friend. Did he try? Otherwise do rowdys thing, it gambling money anyway and they are swimming in it.
DeleteRuns, you're a very good procrastinator with five posts here. LOL.
ReplyDeleteOrdered a salad for lunch from one of my favorite places, and was pleasantly surprised that not only a salad, but they gave me a slice of spanikopita too!!! Nom nom nom! I am now overly stuffed and need a nap.
ReplyDeleteTook my cat to the vet for shots this am and found he's gained 1/2 lb in the last 11 days! Everyone who comes over keeps commenting that he's getting BIG but I guess he is. I also noticed he is bruising my thighs when he jumps on me and prances around till he lays on my lap! Oh fat cat problems!
ReplyDeleteAvoiding the dreaded "What do you wanna do for your birthday" question like the plague. Its not until Saturday people, let me enjoy being 30 for 3.5 more days please!!!!
ReplyDeleteMe too. Go 01/10!
DeleteNo way! That's awesome :)
DeleteHey look - we (sorta) got a shout-out from a commenter on Gawker.
ReplyDelete@Jason-I thought with this site we'd cut the apron strings from Cdan?Correct me if i'm wrong
Deleteinteresting comments on Assange, and Bill Cosby issued a statement for people to remain calm if his three Canadian concerts are disrupted for any reason.
DeleteThe commenters there seem to be saying the best part of CDaN were us commenters and they want to know where we've gone. Well now they know.
DeleteThanks Jason!
DeleteOn the ex: don't do it, don't contact her, unless the sex is awesome, then yes, go for it, but you know it's gonna end up a mess again.
I like that those commenters point out how horrible the new site is and that enty is long gone, sold the place.
Thanks for the link @JBE!
DeleteNice to see Anarchy getting shout outs!
WOOT. Thank good people are aware how fake blind CDAN is.
DeleteEnty sold that site years ago.
Tina- bill cosby shld know enough to hang it up. Now he's gonna get people feeling sorry for this kindly older gentlemen who just wants to tell jokes. Ugh! He a low class pos. i hope no one shows up. Or mb someone will drug his ass and he'll wake up disoriented, half dressed with his asshole burning. Then someone will throw his ass out in the street half naked and he can try to find his way home, where can spend the next 10 years wondering what happened and why.
DeleteThanks @Runswithscissors!!!
ReplyDeleteI decided not to give up and called all around the city! I found a place that matched the Black Friday deal! Buy two get two free, baby!!!! You rock!
At the office downtown and working but don't seem to be getting ahead!
ReplyDeleteSweeeet!
ReplyDeleteI'm doing absolutely nothing. I haven't heard from my "girlfriend" in about a week but noticed she added someone I knew back in the day on Facebook, this person never liked me because of some stuff that went down way back in the day, I'm talking before high school 20+ years ago, so that might have something to do with it. But in any case, I'm not going to worry about it. I've been on my own so long I'm used to it.
ReplyDeleteI am playing a new game, though. I got it for my nieces when they come over but I picked it up the other day and it's pretty freaking fun. It's Disney Infinity 2.0, it's like that Skylanders but with Disney and Marvel characters. You're able to play the games they have on it or make your own. I've made a game sort of like Mario Kart starring Mickey, Donald, Minnie, Black Widow, Cpt. America, Venom and Spider-Man lol
Putting a project to bed FINALLY.
ReplyDeleteNice shout out on Gawker and yes, confirmation of what everyone knew all along about Kim Jong Enty. I want to post as Kim Jong Enty and defend his "honour", haha. "The new site is great! I've read all 200 emails and everyone loves it! You losers just can't handle the truth! Ask my remaining six commenters!"
JBE, I'm of the opinion that if someone dumps you, that's the end. It's like re-lighting a cigarette or re-heating leftovers, it's never as good as the first time and you end up disappointed. Let her go, move on to greener pastures. I assure you there is someone out there. I dated some great guys and some toads and was doing the throw in the towel and join a convent talk when I met SO. (TBF, I was in my 20s and my dating life numbers in the single digits, like on one hand, so in retrospect it was perhaps a bit premature to threaten renunciation vows...) Being alone can be hard and looking back on how awesome it was can make being alone feel harder, but honestly, a fresh start can mean a world of difference.
Jne and everyone waiting and looking for love: it will come but when your involved with wrong person for wrong reasons, you're wasting your time. And the more time u spend with thr wrong person is the less time you have to find and be with the right person.
ReplyDeleteVery well said
DeleteI'm sitting here snacking on bittersweet chocolate chips watching season one of Person of Interest. I need to get off my ass and get my Iggy care package together to send my sister. She's coming down with our new rescue dog next week! I've had the windows open in the house all afternoon, it's a fabulous 68 degrees out.
ReplyDeleteIt's a windchill of -28 C where I live, so jealous!
DeleteI work in a high school athletic department and am working a basketball game this evening. We are all anxiously awaiting word if we are closed tomorrow. Snow day!!!
DeleteTuesday was some sort of freakishly warm day for us. The rest of the week is gonna be in the low 40's. Gotta bust out my fur lined Crocs. Ha ha Haaa! I have morphed into a disgusting Austin hippy. As opposed to a disgusting Denver hippy (my home town). Shit, I wish they would get a clue and at least legalize medical marijuanna here like they did in Colo. Like the hippy musicians here aren't already self "medicating". I mean Willie Nelson lives here for fucksake! Texas is so ass backwards sometimes.
DeleteThe black dog is visiting. I don't remember feeling this down in such a long time. Can't stop crying and shaking ... and vomiting (the stress, I guess). Hopefully I'll tire myself out soon and sleep it off. :-(
ReplyDeleteStepforded please be well <3
DeleteStep- i feel for you. That black dog can be a bitch. Hug him, hold him close til morning. Feed him some snacks, then open up the door and let that black out in the sun, never to return. Be well is right.
DeleteStepforded : big hugs. The black dog is rabid and nasty. Just take care of yourself. Come over to Aus and I'll make you awesome soup, baked goods and fresh juices and you can hang out and watch my dvd collections (Arrested development, black books, 30 Rock) & our crazy pets always cheer anyone up!
DeleteI don't comment very often, as living in England means you already have a head start on me. Obviously I would be first every time if not for the time difference!!
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy reading the regular posters although in a slightly twisted way I do sometimes miss the bitchfest of CDaN, so when I feel the need for spiteful and malicious comments I revisit. Who knew it was okay to say online what you wouldn't dream of saying to someones face?
Anyway, I just wondered if anyone know where the Count has disappeared to - I love his particular brand of snarkiness (erm not really sure what that says about me!)
He sometimes (not often) pops in here
DeleteI have the flu...sick, so very sick, I don't know if it's a fever or I'm having one long hot flash
ReplyDeleteGet well soon redronnie! Maybe some hot toddys will knock it on the head? If not, getting slightly tipsy may help you forget how lousy you feel?
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